Life

I'm going to start this blog out very simple and with a good note. And hopefully it'll be something that helps some of you with your own lives. Life is a gift, and you only get one so you need to make its a good one because when you get older you realize how quickly it goes. Life is important so value and respect it.

Life is all about the choices you make and every choice no matter how small effects you five minutes from now and five years from now. So those choices you make, make sure they are good ones. And contrary to a popular believe that right and wrong are subjective this is NOT true. Because there is a difference between a person making a bad choice and ending up in prison instead of becoming a role model to a community. Not to say every choice you make will be that severe but all of it effects you and your life and how people see you. If you're like me you don't give to craps about what people think of you or how they see you. But I do however care about how my family and close friends see me and those are the people you don't want to hurt, blow off, or think badly of you. There is a difference between a good and a bad decision and when you come to the crossroads the good/right thing to do is never the easiest. But if you do the right thing you will know that you did even if no one else did and that will save your conscience.

Doing the right thing is never easy but those around you will respect you for it even if they don't see it right away. And when people see this of you they often come to you having burdens of their own and ask you to listen to their story. I've done enough right and enough wrong in my life to have learned this. Life is a crazy unpredictable thing and you never end up where you plan to be and even if you do the road to getting there was more than likely filled with twist, turns, detours, and dead ends. But nine times out of ten where you end up is exactly where you need to be.